TIPS FOR STAY AT HOME MOMS & CORPORATE MOMS
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THIS BLOG PERTAINS TO MOTHERS OF AN INFANT OR TODDLER IN THE HOUSEHOLD
Stay at home moms and corporate moms are both big jobs. Here are some comparisons and tips for each.
STAY AT HOME MOMS
About:
A stay at home mom is when the woman's job is to take care of the household. Cooking, cleaning, organizing, running errands, shopping for the household, paying the bills, and most importantly taking care of the children. Whereas the dad works to be the financial provider for the family. When you have a baby or toddler, being a stay at home mom is a big job. Babies and toddlers constantly need attention. The only time a mother can have some time to themselves is when the baby or toddler is napping or if they are with a babysitter for a few hours. Balancing home, family, and yourself leads to patience and prayer.
ADVANTAGES
You have the flexibility to manage the household, run errands, and take care of your baby/toddler.
You can still make money at home by blogging, selling, launching a business, or working from home. It's considered work but you have more flexibility.
Stay at home moms are saving a lot of money not having to pay for a full time nanny or daycare. It is also very stressful to find the right caregiver for your family.
Stay at home moms won't have to experience mom guilt. You are giving your child all of your love and attention that they need and you are not missing any milestones.
Stay at home moms have the advantage of teaching their child what is best.
Most stay at home moms enjoy connecting with other stay at home moms in the community. They enjoy strolls or walks at the park, attending mommy and me classes, or going on regular children play-dates.
Most people say that staying at home with your child is best. Children are better off with at least one parent in the household.
DISADVANTAGES
There is a study that being a stay at mom can lead to depression, sadness, and anger.
Running errands with your child can be exhausting having to manage the crying, feeding, diaper changing, holding the baby, and the worst....taking them in and out of the car seat as you make several stops.
Some stay at home moms consider going back to work. However, finding work can be stressful as there is a big gap in your resume.
Tip:
"For the husband is ahead of the wife as Christ is the head of the church and he is the savior of the body." (Ephesians 5:23)
When it comes to marriage, the husband is the head of the household and the wife manages the household. There is nothing wrong with being a stay at home mom and letting the husband provide by working extra hard for his family. Nurturing our young while taking care of the household is our natural gift that you should love and enjoy. Never feel discouraged when people refer to you as an "unemployed mom". Being a mother is a job. Plus, stay at home moms can still make money when desired. Your dream may be on hold, but never stop dreaming. My tips are to surround yourself with positive people, stay connected with other stay at home moms, stay productive, and always remember how much your child needs you.
CORPORATE MOMS
About:
Corporate moms are called "corporate moms" because you can be a "working mom" while being a stay at home mom. A corporate mom is when your job requires you to work outside of the home. Most corporate moms work 40 hours a week and after maternity leave, most moms head on back to work. If both parents are working outside of the house (40 hours a week), then the child has to have a primary caregiver. Keep in mind that being a corporate mom doesn't mean you're not a mom or you're a bad mom, it just means that you're happy with your career or you need to work extra hard for your family. Being a corporate mom is not easy as you're trying to balance work, family, and time for yourself. Just remember that patience and prayer help you get through each day.
ADVANTAGES
Some corporate moms enjoy the corporate life because they are living their dream job. It is also worth the college degree they've earned. They've establish their career before baby.
Some corporate moms prefer the consistent salary of a corporate job. They have more financial stability for their child.
Some corporate moms love the feeling of being an "independent, successful working mom".
Some mothers have a family member that is able to take care of the baby or toddler (for free) while you're at work. Your prayers are answered if you have that luxury.
DISADVANTAGES
You spend less time with your infant or children and you have mom guilt.
You are paying a fortune for daycare, babysitter, or a nanny. It can be stressful finding the right childcare provider for you.
It may be more difficult to manage the household.
The husband or baby father may feel inferior which can lead to a broken marriage or relationship.
Stress is added to your life. Therefor, some mothers may have to cut back on hours and work part time.
You are sacrificing something in order to be a corporate mom. (sleep, time with your kids, finishing school if you had to take a semester off, time with friends and family, etc)
Tip:
Nowadays, most mothers already established a career before baby, therefor mothers have to work after maternity leave. It is no doubt that mothers will get overwhelmed. Mothers may feel that their "doing it all", needing more physical, emotional, or financial help from the father of the child. Having an infant in the home while both parents are working is not easy. Don't let the stress of working full time, taking care of household, and taking care of your baby ruin your marriage or relationship. My tip is to always communicate with your spouse about how you feel. If you are feeling overwhelmed, it is also okay to take time off or cut back on work hours. As women, yes we want to prove that we can do it all, but the reality is, you can't do it all. Stepping back means that you're doing something better for you and your family.
Tip for Single/Young Working Moms:
As for the single moms that don't have a relationship with the baby's father, working is not an option for the most part. Most single and young mothers already have a great amount of support from their family, but some single moms don't have a lot of support. My tip is to stay strong and please don't be afraid to ask ANYONE for help. There is always someone who will listen, support you, and even pray with you.
